Five injuries that matter in life. Five traumas that shape our lives. Liz Burbo 5 childhood injuries from Liz Burbo

I have such a wonderful book in me that I keep forgetting where I’m going with it. So, I decided to publish a post here and write down the most important points.
If a person has suffered trauma during childhood, a reaction (masks) appears as a result. Well, so that it wouldn’t hurt so much in the future, people seem to be protected from behind.
For all the descriptions below, there is absolutely no need to joke with absolutely all authorities. It’s possible that since you overreacted, you found out that I’ll describe just a small point, and maybe a little more. It’s better to talk about those that have more injuries.





More details about the thrown one


More details about the abandoned


More details about the humiliated


More details about the injury

Report on the trauma of injustice

There is a lot to be said for the type of mask, for example, the manner of speaking and voice:
The intruder's voice is weak and powerless.
The stalemate has a childish voice with a hint of skarga.
A masochist often embellishes his voice with clever intonations, depicting a concentrated peculiarity.
Rigid thinking is rather mechanical and streamant.
The controller teases in a booming, booming voice.

How this same injury is resolved:
THE TRAUMA OF THE PERSON EXPERIENCED WITH YOUR FATHER OF YOUR PERSON. Then the ink feels thrown into the guise of that very article that is in itself. He calls them to the one who stinks of him, and perceives greater anger towards them than himself. On the other hand, if you are challenged by the peculiarity of your prostate condition, you will challenge yourself even more. Apparently, at times your anger dominates on yourself. It is clear at this time that there is great confidence that this person of ill health did not leave, but left.
THE TRAUMA OF THE DELIBERATE IS EXPERIENCED WITH THE FATHER OF THE OPPOSITE PIDLOGY. It is important to take into account that it can deprive people of their prostrate status, and make them feel worse than themselves. As he experiences the reality of being abandoned in the face of his status, he blames himself for the fact that he has not yet shown sufficient respect or the wisdom to appreciate his respect. It often happens that when we say that this accusation left him, but actually threw him away.
LOWER TRAUMA IS PRIMARILY EXPERIENCED MATERIALLY, regardless of the status. This masochistic man is smart to recognize the humiliation of a woman’s status. I'll ring and I'll ring. If he experiences the trauma of humiliation in the face of his human status, then he feels guilty about his behavior and his position in front of this person. You can experience this trauma with your father, who is engaged in his physical training, teaching the child to maintain cleanliness, get used to the skin, and get dressed. If this is your outburst, then you are deprived of stagnation of what has been said to the human or female version.
HEALTH TRAUMA IS EXPERIENCED WITH A FATHER OF THE OPPOSITE PIDLOGY. This control person respects the fact that he or she is suffering from people suffering from the disease, and is sensitive to their feelings and emotions. If he is experiencing trauma due to the revelations of his status, then he calls himself a boss and gets angry for those who do not have the senses to convey and promptly avoid this knowledge. It is quite clear that those who seem to be happy on the side of his status, in fact, realize that he is activating the trauma of injustice.
THE TRAUMA OF INJUSTICE IS EXPERIENCED WITH YOUR GRANDFATHER. So the one who suffers from injustice on the side of his own status and calls them to injustice before him. If he experiences a situation that he respects as unfair, with a particularly protracted status, then he blames not this person, but rather himself, for injustice and incorrectness. It is absolutely incredible that despite the experience of injustice with a special protracted status, there is actually a call for joy. Intense suffering can bring him to ruinous ferocity.

The axle of the butt, as well as the other, can harm you.
____ Someone who suffers from the trauma of being thrown away will intensify this trauma immediately if she calls herself worthless, if she is respectful, which means nothing in the lives of other people, if there is a unique situation.
____ Someone who suffers from the trauma of being abandoned reinforces this trauma if she abandons what is important for someone else, if she allows herself to fall, if she does not take enough care of herself and does not give herself the necessary respect. He tells others that he cares intensely for them, and thus tries to get them to leave, but he loses himself again. He inflicts a lot of suffering on his body, creating new illnesses to maintain respect.
____ Someone who suffers from the trauma of humiliation will inflict this injury immediately if he belittles himself, if he equals himself with others and applies his merits, if he incriminates himself in rudeness, unkindness, lack of will, arrogance, etc. He humiliates himself with clothes that he won’t wear and that he will always become sad. You destroy your body by suffering, giving it so much that it is impossible for you to poison and absorb it. She embraces suffering, taking on someone else’s responsibility and allowing herself the freedom she needs at a special time.
____ The one who suffers from trauma reinforces this trauma whenever he breaks himself, when he instills self-destructive truths, when he destroys the obligation to relate to himself. He punishes himself if he completes the entire work: he does not dare to entrust this work to others, since he does not trust them. In order to engage in control and verification of what to do with others, one does not lose time on oneself.
____ The one who suffers from the trauma of injustice amplify this trauma with supernatural power to himself. He does not care about his own stress and often creates stressful situations for himself. He is unfair to himself, somewhat self-critical and important about his positive qualities and results of work. He suffers if he has little or no damage. He suffers because he cannot create satisfaction for himself.

Give a gift to those who need to understand, accept, love, study, and then the trauma will disappear.
____Your trauma is close to healing, as you step by step take up more and more space, as you begin to strengthen yourself. And if it gives you something that doesn’t bother you, it doesn’t knock you out of the stake. Details are more likely to involve situations in which you are afraid to panic.
____Your trauma of Abandonment is close to healing, as you feel better about yourself and require less respect. Life doesn’t seem so dramatic anymore. You increasingly feel the need to start different projects, and realize that others are not helping you, and you can continue to do the same yourself.
____Your trauma of humiliation is close to healing, because, first of all, you need to say this to someone, you give yourself an hour to think about what meets your needs. You put less pressure on your shoulders and feel more at ease. You stop creating boundaries on your own. You are the one who indulges in profanities and extortions, not realizing that he is careless and unnecessary.
____Your ZRAD trauma is close to healing, as you no longer experience such tumultuous emotions that might or might ruin your plans. You loosen your grip more easily. Let me remind you: to loosen your grip means to relax your cunningness until the result, to relax your worries so that everything goes exactly according to your plan. You are no longer the center of gravity. If you feel proud of your work, you feel good about it if others do not celebrate or recognize your merits.
____Your trauma of injustice is close to healing, since you allow yourself not to be so thorough, to indulge in mercy, without falling into cruelty or criticizing yourself. You can allow yourself to show your sensitivity, you can cry in front of others, without being afraid of their judgment and without worrying about the time-consuming loss of control.

About the transformation and elimination of these five traumas in more detail

The soul does not go in one direction

and not as tall as his outline.

The soul opens up like a lotus

with untreated pellets.

Kahlil Gibran

It seems like a small gap has appeared in the cocoon. The people who were passing by, frowned and began to watch out for a snowstorm blowing through this gap. A lot of hours passed, the snowstorm of the sky had lost its zusilla, and the gap was still just as small. It seemed that the snowstorm had consumed everything it could, and no one had any more strength for anything else.

Then the person decided to help the snowstorm and cut the cocoon with a knife. Snowstorm immediately emerged from the cocoon. Yet her body was weak and mute, her wings were unbroken and still collapsed. The people continued to be careful, thinking that the axis-axis of the wing of the snowstorm would straighten, rise and then be able to fly.

Nothing happened! For the rest of its life, the snowstorm drags its weak body and its unstraightened wings along the ground. She never learned to fly.

And all that the people, wanting to help her, cut the cocoon. You don’t know that the blizzard needs a lot of force so that the life juices from the body flow from the wing. In life, the blizzard blows and forcibly strips the shell of the cocoon so that it can fly.

Sometimes we need the most in life. If we were allowed to live without having to deal with difficulties, we would be deprived. We could not have become as strong as we are now. We wouldn't have learned to fly.

Peredmova

I asked for strength

and life gave me difficulties,

To make me stronger.

I asked for wisdom,

and life gave me problems,

To make me wiser.

I asked for wealth,

and life gave me brains and flesh,

So that I can just pray.

I ask for your courage,

and life gave me a hard time,

finish it

I asked for a kohannya,

and life gave me people,

who needs my help.

I took nothing away from what I asked...

Once I had gained everything I needed.

Can you guess the name of the book? So, I wrote this book under the inspiration of one of my readers, Liz Burbo. Perhaps, have you read their book “Five Traumas How to Respect Yourself”?

First, after reading this book, I understood little. Moreover, it especially took away the oppressive hostility from me: I discovered all five injuries in myself... More precisely, I identified myself with one lasting injury. I experienced this “holy feeling” as if it were absolutely hopeless. Well, I found out that I am a serious walking injury, but what next? What about sim robiti? And I decided to carry out the investigation.

Several times I took the seminar “Five Traumas” with Liz Bourbo, added a lot of caution, and based on my learnings and decisions, I decided to write this book. I hope that she will help you heal your soul and your body. And learn to fly!

Let me just say this: this is an unimportant book. Shvidshe, the worker is sewing, the maker of your special and spiritual growth. Prepare the lamb - here you will find plenty of space for notes. Feel free to write directly to the book, share with it your feelings, thoughts, and dreams.

What is needed? If, after some hour, you pick up the book again and read what you have written, for example, you will be glad that the changes have occurred in your life and especially with you during this hour. Once again, you can erase everything and start working again!

The more I share my thoughts, dreams and dreams, the more I gain knowledge about myself.

And now I warn the undesirable to get out of the way. Read the text, close your eyes, think twice and write down the thoughts that come to mind.

Every one of us here has a deep question in our hearts: who am I, who was born, why was I given this life, what do I need to work for in this life, where will I go after death? Every one of us here feels deep in our souls that we were born for something very important. Unfortunately, not everyone manages to live life in such a way as to understand and achieve their rightful purpose. Without knowing what will really happen to us after death, it is impossible to understand our meaning, value and meaning of life itself...

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As you wrote, the most important thing for your soul is to learn insane forgiveness, to accept love, and you are right.

Why may? Because you still have to learn how to do this to others! Deep in your heart you know: you have something to teach other people. You can give a unique piece of light to God, His Light and Love.

Whether it’s spilkuvannya or not, it’s a process of navchannya and navchannya.

And people who do not cherish the desire to express the high mission of their life. Even though your life is already shining with understanding, you are being guided directly by someone else. This very understanding led you to the police at the bookstore, where they stole this book.

Lots of titles and few honors! You have protected the All-World. Vaughn places her hopes on you. You were able to “cast” souls that would find their home on our planet. I'm flying!

And if I give away all my clothes and give my body to the bedroom, but I don’t love love, there is no bark.

Love is to endure, to be merciful, love is not to be spoiled, love is not magnified, does not write, does not rush, does not joke, does not fight, does not think evil, does not delight in untruth, but delights in the truth; He covers everything, believes everything, accepts everything, endures everything.

The work never ceases, wanting the prophecies to start, and the words to close, and knowledge to touch.

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